MOSAIC Learning Pathway

Allyship

  • 1.5–3 hour conversation
  • Ages 14 and over
  • 4 MOSAIC cards
  • Free printable PDF

Thank you for being here!

Welcome to a community of people who are motivated to create cohesion through courageous conversations. We hope that these MOSAIC Pathways will support you to have healthy conversations about complex topics, so that we can collectively move closer to a more peaceful and inclusive society.

We know how busy life can get and that it can be difficult to find the time to be fully prepared for these conversations. Our team has designed this pathway as one possible way to structure a conversation around this topic. We welcome your feedback and suggested changes for this pathway, and any ideas you have for other pathway topics.

Introduction

The Allyship Pathway aims to help participants build their understanding and practice of actionable allyship. This Pathway introduces participants to the concepts of allyship and accomplice, seeking to broaden their perspectives and offering different ways for effective solidarity. We hope that by the end of the session, participants understand why allyship is important for societal change and can critically reflect on its limitations. Participants should leave the session with the knowledge, self-awareness, and skills necessary to be thoughtful allies and accomplices, and to integrate allyship into their daily lives.

Setting up the Conversation

Before getting stuck into the conversation, think how you might create a space that encourages open dialogue, vulnerability with purpose, and constructive engagement, where everyone involved feels empowered to share their experience without fear of judgment.

We encourage appropriate icebreaker and safety checkout activities. We believe alongside those activities that this pathway can range in time from 1.5 hours to 3 hours.

Please consider further exploration through the Know Better Do Bettter and Positionality pathways.

Creating a Safe and Accountable Space

  1. Acknowledge Diverse Experiences: Begin by acknowledging the diverse experiences present in the room. Everyone brings unique perspectives shaped by their backgrounds, identities, and lived experiences. This recognition lays the foundation for understanding and empathy.
  2. Variation in Knowledge Levels: Recognise the varying levels of knowledge about the topic. Some participants may be well-informed, while others may be exploring these concepts for the first time. Encourage an open mind and an attitude of curiosity for learning from one another.
  3. Sharing Personal Stories: Emphasise the importance of sharing personal stories, which can humanise the discussion and deepen understanding. Participants should feel empowered to share their experiences, knowing that doing so enriches the conversation.
  4. Ground Rules for Support: Establish ground rules for supporting each other throughout the conversation. Encourage active listening, empathy, and validation. Create a space where participants can express their thoughts and feelings without fear of judgement.
  5. Checking Comfort Levels: Set guidelines for checking in on comfort levels. Acknowledge that discussions around these topics can evoke strong emotions. Encourage participants to communicate when they need a pause or additional support.
    1. Check-in with Young Indigenous & People of Colour: Recognise that these topics/conversations may be more personal for young people of colour. Consider checking in with them individually before the session to gauge their comfort levels and address any concerns. During the conversation, be attentive to their reactions and provide opportunities for them to share or opt-out as needed.
    2. Addressing Power Dynamics: Be mindful of power dynamics within the group. Ensure that everyone has an opportunity to speak, and actively intervene if dominant voices overpower marginalised perspectives. Facilitate with an understanding of the intersectionality of identities and how they contribute to varied experiences of discrimination.
  6. Respecting Dissenting Views: Acknowledge the potential for differing opinions and viewpoints. Create an environment where dissenting views are acknowledged and discussed constructively through respectful dialogue. However, dissenting views do not mean participants are entitled to express views that are violent, discriminatory, or question the existence of other people. Respect for differing views does not include tolerating hateful and harmful speech. Ensure that conversations remain within the bounds of respectful communication, within an atmosphere where participants feel safe and valued. Encourage discussions that promote understanding rather than perpetuating harm and address any language or behaviour that may be harmful or disrespectful to others.

Support and Care for Young People

  1. Recognise Vulnerability: Understand that young people, especially those from marginalised communities, may feel vulnerable discussing these topics. Create an atmosphere that respects and values their emotions and perspectives.
  2. Provide Resources for Support: Offer resources and information for additional support. Encourage participants to seek help if needed, offer a post workshop support sheet.
  3. Empower Through Education: Empower young people through education. Provide resources that help build resilience and self-esteem. Highlight positive stories and examples of resilience within their communities.
  4. Anti-Racist Practice: Incorporate anti-racist principles into facilitation by emphasising the importance of dismantling racist structures and promoting inclusivity. Encourage young people to explore how they can actively contribute to anti-racist practices in their lives and build a sense of collective responsibility in creating a more equitable and just society.
  5. Encourage Allyship: Encourage participants to support one another, learn from shared experiences, and work together towards a more inclusive and equitable future.

MOSAIC Cards

These are the recommended MOSAIC cards you can use to explore Allyship.

MAPPING OPINIONS (STARTER QUESTIONS)

1

How do you describe your values and beliefs?

  • What are you particularly passionate about?
  • What things make you angry?
  • What values or beliefs do you think sit underneath this anger/passion?

Values: universal concepts about what matters most to us, they are what motivates us.

Beliefs: assumptions we hold true that uphold our values.

MAPPING OPINIONS (STARTER QUESTIONS)

6

Who or what influences your worldview?

  • As you reflect, how do you feel about who or what is shaping your worldview?
  • Is there anyone or anything you want to remove?
  • Who or what would you want to add?

SHIFTING ATTITUDES (COURAGEOUS CONVERSATIONS)

24

What is 'privilege'?

  • What advantages do you have based on your identity (gender, race, class or sexuality)?
  • What does it look like to move from holding privilege with guilt to holding it with gratitude?
  • How can you use privilege to support others?

INTEGRATING COHESION (WHERE TO FROM HERE)

30

What kind of person do you want to be?

  • What are the good things about you that you can celebrate?
  • What are the things you want to grow/develop?
  • What changes do you need to make personally?

If there was one thing you would want to be known as/for what would it be?

Supporting Resources

Here is a selection of relevant resources for facilitators and workshop participants to explore the topic of Allyship. We recommend that you engage with the resources beforehand; however, they may also be built into the structure of the session where appropriate.

  • Article

    How to Tell if You're Being a Good Ally

    Provides practical insights on being an effective ally.

    5 minutes reading · Basic

  • Article

    Ally or Accomplice? The Language of Activism

    Explores language nuances in activism and allyship.

    3 minutes reading · Basic

  • Collage of faces with a banner reading Asians Supporting Tino Rangatiratanga

    Article

    Tina Ngata – What's Required From Tangata Tiriti

    Explores responsibilities and expectations in the context of the Treaty of Waitangi.

    7 minutes reading · Moderate

  • Article

    Te Tāngi ā te Ruru – To Centre Constitutional Transformation for Asian Tangata Tiriti

    Addresses the need to prioritise constitutional transformation for Asian Tangata Tiriti.

    20 minutes reading · Moderate

The Conversation

A

Getting started

Welcome to this guided conversation on allyship - an active practice of using power and privilege to promote equity, inclusion, and justice. Please note that this pathway uses some questions from the MOSAIC cards and additional transition questions have been added for further unpacking of the topic.

MAPPING OPINIONS (STARTER QUESTIONS)

1

How do you describe your values and beliefs?

  • What are you particularly passionate about?
  • What things make you angry?
  • What values or beliefs do you think sit underneath this anger/passion?

Values: universal concepts about what matters most to us, they are what motivates us.

Beliefs: assumptions we hold true that uphold our values.

This card supports participants to develop a clear understanding of their personal beliefs and values. Sharing their values and beliefs with others encourages participants to build empathy and show respectful behaviour, particularly when hearing values and beliefs different to their own.

MAPPING OPINIONS (STARTER QUESTIONS)

6

Who or what influences your worldview?

  • As you reflect, how do you feel about who or what is shaping your worldview?
  • Is there anyone or anything you want to remove?
  • Who or what would you want to add?

This card asks participants to reflect on how external factors shape their perspectives and share what influential factors contribute to their worldview.

B

Getting deeper

SHIFTING ATTITUDES (COURAGEOUS CONVERSATIONS)

24

What is 'privilege'?

  • What advantages do you have based on your identity (gender, race, class or sexuality)?
  • What does it look like to move from holding privilege with guilt to holding it with gratitude?
  • How can you use privilege to support others?

Encourage participants to consider how certain factors might grant them advantages or disadvantages in society.

Follow up questions

How is worldview connected to privilege?

Encourage participants to build an understanding of the intersection between worldview and privilege.

How does being an ally and being an accomplice differ in the context of promoting equity and justice?

This questions encourage participants to identify the nuances between being an ally and an accomplice and the different ways these concepts show up in people's beliefs and actions.

How can we be in solidarity with people whose level of privilege differs from ours?

This question builds awareness and empathy by asking participants to connect their own worldview and lived experiences with those of others.

C

Wrapping up

INTEGRATING COHESION (WHERE TO FROM HERE)

30

What kind of person do you want to be?

  • What are the good things about you that you can celebrate?
  • What are the things you want to grow/develop?
  • What changes do you need to make personally?

If there was one thing you would want to be known as/for what would it be?

This question prompts participants to think about how their learning can contribute to positive changes in their community, and what practical steps they can take to promote equity and inclusion as part of their personal commitment to allyship.

Reflection questions

Here are some additional questions to help participants reflect on the conversation they've just had.

  • What are some key learnings/takeaways? How might these be shared with others and in what settings?
  • How has this Pathway impacted your understanding of allyship?
  • How might you apply your experience of this Pathway conversation?

After the Conversation

Here are some extra resources that you can check out to deepen your understanding of allyship, solidarity and activism. Examples include narratives from different perspectives so that participants can chose what speaks to them most.

  • Still from the video 5 Tips for Being an Ally

    Video

    5 Tips for Being an Ally

    Offers practical tips for being an effective ally.

    4 minutes · Basic

  • Title card of the documentary Land of the Long White Cloud

    Documentary

    Land of the Long White Cloud

    A documentary series exploring New Zealand's history and cultural context. These two episodes focus on the role of non-Māori in confronting colonisation and racism.

    G, 12 minutes (together) · Basic

  • Headline: Allyship – The Key To Unlocking The Power Of Diversity

    Article

    Forbes – Allyship: The Key to Unlocking the Power of Diversity

    Explores the significance of allyship in fostering diversity and inclusion.

    6 minutes reading · Basic

  • Colourful game pieces connected in a network

    Video

    Awaken Blog – Allyship vs. Accomplice: The What, Why, and How

    Distinguishes between allyship and being an accomplice.

    10 minutes reading · Moderate

  • Tina Ngata (Photo: Qiane Matata-Sipu/NUKU)

    Video

    E-Tangata – Tina Ngata: Performative Gestures and Permissiveness Are Derailing Tiriti Justice

    Discusses performative gestures and permissiveness in the context of Tiriti justice.

    4 minutes reading · Moderate

Support

We know these conversations can be difficult and bring up a range of experiences and deep emotions, which is totally valid. If you would like some support, here are some contact details for suggested support organisations and communities.

  • YouthLine

    0800 376 633

    Free 24/7 text 234

    talk@youthline.co.nz

  • RainbowYouth

    ry.org.nz

  • Aroā Wellbeing

    A space created by rangatahi for rangatahi.

    The link printed in the guide is no longer online.

Take it with you

This whole pathway, formatted for print — set up the room, deal the cards, have the conversation.

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