MOSAIC Learning Pathway

Cyberbullying

  • 1.5–3 hour conversation
  • 4 MOSAIC cards
  • Free printable PDF

Thank you for being here!

Welcome to a community of people who are motivated to create cohesion through courageous conversations. We hope that these MOSAIC Pathways will support you to have healthy conversations about complex topics, so that we can collectively move closer to a more peaceful and inclusive society.

We know how busy life can get and that it can be difficult to find the time to be fully prepared for these conversations. Our team has designed this pathway as one possible way to structure a conversation around this topic. We welcome your feedback and suggested changes for this pathway, and any ideas you have for other pathway topics.

This pathway explores the line between banter and bullying online. Participants will reflect on times that they might have shared information online that upset others and consider impacts of cyberbullying offline, including how it might show up in their friend groups and communities.

This pathway will support participants to recognise cyberbullying experiences, on- or offline and explore the broad spectrum of cyberbullying behaviours including doxxing, deepfakes, and the sharing of mis- and disinformation.

Introduction

Participants will explore how they think about cyberbullying as both an extension of, and separate from, other forms of bullying. Just because it happens online doesn’t mean that it is any less harmful than traditional bullying.

Setting up the Conversation

Before getting stuck into the conversation, think how you might create a space that encourages open dialogue, vulnerability with purpose, and constructive engagement, where everyone involved feels empowered to share their experience without fear of judgment.

We encourage appropriate ice breaker and safety check out activities. We believe alongside those activities that this pathway can range in time from 1.5 hours to 3 hours.

Please consider further exploration through the “When humour hurts” and Allyship pathways.

Creating a Safe and Accountable Space

  1. Acknowledge Diverse Experiences: Begin by acknowledging the diverse experiences present in the room. Everyone brings unique perspectives shaped by their backgrounds, identities, and lived experiences. This recognition lays the foundation for understanding and empathy.
  2. Variation in Knowledge Levels: Recognise the varying levels of knowledge about the topic. Some participants may be well-informed, while others may be exploring these concepts for the first time. Encourage an open mind and an attitude of curiosity for learning from one another.
  3. Sharing Personal Stories: Emphasise the importance of sharing personal stories, which can humanise the discussion and deepen understanding. Participants should feel empowered to share their experiences, knowing that doing so enriches the conversation.
  4. Ground Rules for Support: Establish ground rules for supporting each other throughout the conversation. Encourage active listening, empathy, and validation. Create a space where participants can express their thoughts and feelings without fear of judgement.
  5. Checking Comfort Levels: Set guidelines for checking in on comfort levels. Acknowledge that discussions around these topics can evoke strong emotions. Encourage participants to communicate when they need a pause or additional support.
    1. Check-in with Young Indigenous & People of Colour: Recognise that these topics/conversations may be more personal for young people of colour. Consider checking in with them individually before the session to gauge their comfort levels and address any concerns. During the conversation, be attentive to their reactions and provide opportunities for them to share or opt-out as needed.
    2. Addressing Power Dynamics: Be mindful of power dynamics within the group. Ensure that everyone has an opportunity to speak, and actively intervene if dominant voices overpower marginalised perspectives. Facilitate with an understanding of the intersectionality of identities and how they contribute to varied experiences of discrimination.
  6. Respecting Dissenting Views: Acknowledge the potential for differing opinions and viewpoints. Create an environment where dissenting views are acknowledged and discussed constructively through respectful dialogue. However, dissenting views do not mean participants are entitled to express views that are violent, discriminatory, or question the existence of other people. Respect for differing views does not include tolerating hateful and harmful speech. Ensure that conversations remain within the bounds of respectful communication, within an atmosphere where participants feel safe and valued. Encourage discussions that promote understanding rather than perpetuating harm and address any language or behaviour that may be harmful or disrespectful to others.

Support and Care for Young People

  1. Recognise Vulnerability: Understand that young people, especially those from marginalised communities, may feel vulnerable discussing these topics. Create an atmosphere that respects and values their emotions and perspectives.
  2. Provide Resources for Support: Offer resources and information for additional support. Encourage participants to seek help if needed, offer a post workshop support sheet.
  3. Empower Through Education: Empower young people through education. Provide resources that help build resilience and self-esteem. Highlight positive stories and examples of resilience within their communities.
  4. Anti-Racist Practice: Incorporate anti-racist principles into facilitation by emphasising the importance of dismantling racist structures and promoting inclusivity. Encourage participants to explore how they can actively contribute to anti-racist practices in their lives. Foster a sense of collective responsibility in creating a more equitable and just society.
  5. Encourage Allyship: Cultivate an environment of allyship, encourage participants to support one another, learn from shared experiences, and work together towards a more inclusive and equitable future.

MOSAIC Cards

These are the recommended MOSAIC cards you can use to explore the topic of cyberbullying.

SHIFTING ATTITUDES (COURAGEOUS CONVERSATIONS)

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How do you define 'banter'?

  • What does good banter feel like?
  • How is banter different from teasing, bullying or harassment?
  • How do you know when you are moving from one to another?

SHIFTING ATTITUDES (COURAGEOUS CONVERSATIONS)

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When have you unintentionally offended someone?

  • What happened for you?
  • What happened for the other person?
  • How would you approach it differently now?

SHIFTING ATTITUDES (COURAGEOUS CONVERSATIONS)

20

Would you post something online that you wouldn't say in person?

  • What might a healthy online discussion look like?
  • How similar or different is it to in person discussions?

SHIFTING ATTITUDES (COURAGEOUS CONVERSATIONS)

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What are the impacts of cyberbullying?

  • Have you observed bullying behaviour online?
  • What motivates people to post stuff online?
  • How similar is your behaviour online and offline?

Supporting Resources

Here is a selection of relevant resources for facilitators and workshop participants to explore the topic of Cyberbullying. We recommend that you engage with the resources beforehand; however, they may also be built into the structure of the session where appropriate.

  • Title card reading Gamergate from the Innuendo Studio video essay

    Video

    A CASE STUDY IN DIGITAL RADICALISM – INNUENDO STUDIO

    An exploration of how Gamergate radicalised young men, spurred on by cyberbullying. Contextualises cyberbullying as a potential entry point to radicalisation. More fully explored in Why Are You So Angry?

    50:08 minutes · Moderate

    CW: bullying, misogynist language

  • Cover art for the podcast Reply All

    Podcast

    #145 LOUDER – REPLY ALL

    A podcast episode about doxing and harassment and the role that platforms like YouTube have in responding to harassment. Reply All frequently has episodes about Internet culture-related topics.

    35 minutes · Moderate

    Contains bullying, homophobic language

  • Podcast

    DEEPFAKES, LIES, AND CHEERLEADING – ENDLESS THREAD

    A podcast about deepfakes and cyberbullying.

    40 minutes · Moderate

  • Keep It Real Online banner reading Online bullying

    Online resource

    KEEP IT REAL ONLINE

    NZ-based resources based on online safety. Includes links on where to report for each major social media company.

    60 minutes · Basic

The Conversation

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Getting started

SHIFTING ATTITUDES (COURAGEOUS CONVERSATIONS)

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How do you define 'banter'?

  • What does good banter feel like?
  • How is banter different from teasing, bullying or harassment?
  • How do you know when you are moving from one to another?

This card asks participants to think about the role of humour in cyberbullying. Encourage discussion of how there are differing perspectives of humour and how communicating humour online can be received differently. Cyberbullying can start with a joke. This card can be explored further through the “When humour hurts” pathway.

Follow up questions

What does good banter feel like?

How is banter different from teasing and bullying?

Are there any times when you can’t banter? E.g. At home? Online? With different people?

SHIFTING ATTITUDES (COURAGEOUS CONVERSATIONS)

14

When have you unintentionally offended someone?

  • What happened for you?
  • What happened for the other person?
  • How would you approach it differently now?

This card supports participants to reflect on the negative consequences and impact that our words and actions can have on others, regardless of our initial intention.

Follow up questions

How did you respond that time?

What happened to the other person?

What does a healthy response look like from you when you realise you have offended someone?

B

Getting deeper

SHIFTING ATTITUDES (COURAGEOUS CONVERSATIONS)

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Would you post something online that you wouldn't say in person?

  • What might a healthy online discussion look like?
  • How similar or different is it to in person discussions?

This questions encourages participants to recognise that anonymity and/or physical distance through online spaces could encourage people to say things that they would not feel comfortable saying or doing in person.

Follow up questions

What does a healthy online discussion look like?

How similar or different is it to in-person discussions?

Can you tell when you meet someone who is ‘chronically online’ IRL? What gives them away?

SHIFTING ATTITUDES (COURAGEOUS CONVERSATIONS)

21

What are the impacts of cyberbullying?

  • Have you observed bullying behaviour online?
  • What motivates people to post stuff online?
  • How similar is your behaviour online and offline?

This card explores the connections between online and offline impacts of cyberbullying on others and that the resulting impact from both can be the same. Encourage participants to consider the potential for online bullying to lead to offline consequences that we might not expect.

Follow up questions

Have you seen bullying online?

How similar is your behaviour on and offline?

Do you know where to go to if you see this happening?

Have you seen someone post something online that you wouldn’t say in person?

Have you had something post about your online that you surprised you?

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Wrapping up

Reflection questions

Here are some questions to help you reflect on the conversation you’ve just had.

  • What are some key learnings/takeaways? How might these be shared with others and in what settings?
  • How has this Pathway impacted your understanding of cyberbullying?
  • How might you apply your experience of this Pathway conversation?

After the Conversation

Facilitators and workshop participants might be keen to continue with their learning about cyberbullying. Here are some extra resources that you can check out to deepen your understanding.

  • Online resource

    YOU’RE IN CONTROL WITH PARENTAL CONTROLS – CLASSIFICATION OFFICE

    A practical guide to the tools for parents and caregivers to help keep whānau safe when viewing entertainment online.

    From 9 minutes reading and viewing time · Basic

  • Online resource

    WHAT IS DOXXING?

    A resource that explains what doxing is and how is can be harmful.

    From 4 minutes reading time · Basic

  • Online resource

    LEARNING FOR JUSTICE (FORMERLY TEACHING TOLERANCE) SOUTHERN POVERTY LAW CENTER

    A huge repository of bullying-related resources including guidance for helping students speak up, abuse of power, and examining hidden biases. Other kaupapa includes religion, ability, and class.

    From 9 minutes reading time · Basic to High

  • Online resource

    IT GETS BETTER

    A collection of resources for LGBTQ+ youth.

    Moderate

  • Online resource

    CYBERBULLYING RESEARCH CENTER

    Collates research, statistics, trainings, fact sheets, and other helpful resources to better understand cyberbullying.

    Basic to High

Support

We know these conversations can be difficult and bring up a range of experiences and deep emotions, which is totally valid. Here are some contact details for suggested support organisations and communities.

Take it with you

This whole pathway, formatted for print — set up the room, deal the cards, have the conversation.

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